About Heartwise

Why Heartwise exists

Most people do not need a therapist at 2am. They need a clear question, an honest answer and a next step. Heartwise was built for that moment, the one where you replay a conversation, reread a message and wonder whether you are overthinking or reading it exactly right.

We publish free relationship quizzes, checkers and calculators that score behaviour rather than vibes. Every tool asks about the things that actually predict how relationships go: consistency, respect, repair after conflict, effort, honesty and safety.

How our tools are built

Each quiz is written around observable behaviour. Instead of asking "do you feel loved", we ask what happens when you are upset, who initiates contact, how disagreements end and whether promises turn into action. Answers are weighted and combined into a score, then mapped to a result band with plain-language guidance.

Scores are directional, not clinical. A high red flag score does not diagnose anyone, and a high love score is not a guarantee. They are structured prompts for reflection.

Privacy first

Quizzes run entirely in your browser. We do not ask you to create an account, we do not store your answers and we do not sell data. If you close the tab, the result is gone.

Who writes the content

Heartwise content is written and reviewed by our editorial team, drawing on published research in attachment theory, conflict resolution and relationship satisfaction. We write in plain English and avoid jargon wherever possible.

What Heartwise is not

Heartwise is not therapy, counselling, diagnosis or crisis support. If you are in an unsafe situation, please contact a local domestic abuse service or emergency number. Our tools are educational and are designed to help you think clearly, not to replace professional help.

Get in touch

Questions, corrections, partnership ideas or feedback are welcome through our contact page. We read everything.