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Green Flag Checker

Proof that it's actually good.

We're all trained to hunt for red flags. Green flags are quieter and just as diagnostic, this checker counts the signs that someone is genuinely safe to love.

Free ยท No sign-up ยท Nothing is stored

Questions people ask

What are green flags in a relationship?
Behaviours that show emotional maturity and safety: fast repair after conflict, kindness with no audience, respect for your no, and consistency between words and actions.
Why do healthy relationships feel boring?
If you're used to anxious relationships, calm can read as flat. That's a nervous-system response, not evidence of missing chemistry.

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Heartwise tools are for reflection and education. They are not therapy, diagnosis or a substitute for professional support. If you feel unsafe in your relationship, please contact a local domestic-abuse service.